It is hard to believe this story but it is true. Worse, it is not a rare thing. Beating a family member, more often a woman is common, especially when there is an alcoholic at home. It is called Domestic violence. We are not called to abuse, violence, and uncontrolled anger. The criminal man in the above story was distressing for the family. He is a history-sheeter with a long list of crimes to his name.
Angry Cain
The Spring Festival had arrived and Adam and his sons Cain and Abel were to bring the best of their animals for the sacrifice. Knowing that blood must be shed to cover their sins, a year-old lamb without blemish was to be slain. Cain brought the first fruits of his farm, but Elohim rejected it. Though it was a nice gift, it wasn't the right one. Cain was so angry when Elohim asked him why and showed him a better way, Cain refused to listen. (Genesis 4:6,7) Cain carefully planned to murder his brother, Abel. He nursed his anger into a fire by passing the blame to Abel. He refused to foresee the consequences of his actions. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 22: 24-25 that we should not make friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with the wrathful man, let you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare. We tend to find common ground with friends and can enjoy opposites as well. We subconsciously mirror, reflect, and imitate the people we live with and associate with. ‘Bad company corrupts good character’ because companions leave a deep imprint on the soul. People do what others do to be accepted into the group or because of peer pressure. Once the hand is dipped in the bowl, it is soiled and they ignore their conscience and do what is wrong. Their soul is snared/trapped and escaping it is near impossible but for the intervention of ADONAI.
Instead, we are called to love one another, to be at peace with one another, to self-control and kindness, among many traits of ADONAI. That is what makes one caring and understanding. This leads to good friendships. It is common to read in the news how friends go for picnics to water bodies where one drowns and the other jumps in to save the other. Often, both drown in the process and it is tragic for the remaining families. We must be intentional in investing our time and energy in needy people to build their lives and families. We can choose good company and wise people and see the world through their lenses.
Shalom. May YHWH guard and guide you and may you choose wise friends. May you be the friend in need and a friend in deed. May you be the wise friend to others, bringing joy and blessings to them. Amen.
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